O is for OPTIMISM
A happy and abundant life is
built step-by-step based on the choices we make or decisions we take at every
moment in our life. Some moments are life changing and determine the course/
direction our life will take. It’s
during these crucial moments that the choice we make becomes so critical. Every
moment provides us with 2 choices – be an Optimist or a Pessimist. The choice of
Optimism brings out the best in us; even the word “Optimism” has roots in Latin,
derived from the word “Optimum” denoting “the best”. Optimism or the tendency
to look at the brighter side of everything and is more of an attitude or mindset
that carry us through tough times.
Why OPTIMISM is important ?
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Helps us see possibilities and opportunities in
every situation/ circumstance
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Build and strengthens our coping skills which
helps when confronted with failure/ setback/ rejection·
Keeps us self-motivated which enables us achieve
more in life
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Provides health benefits in terms of ensuring
better and healthy cardiovascular system, better immunity. Being positive and
optimistic releases serotonin, which creates a sense of well-being
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Makes us more solution oriented where we focus more
on finding positive ways to problems
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Increases our level of self-esteem and
self-confidence
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Renders us more clear and organised in our thoughts
and actions, thereby managing time better
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Build in ability to take more risks and try put
new things
How to build OPTIMISM ?
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Build a mindset of acceptance that things may go
wrong. Keep revisiting your beliefs and remove those which hold you back from
seeing the bright side of life. Practice mindfulness
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Stop seeking perfection in everything , rather
start focusing on progress. Start taking small steps towards the goals
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Be in the company of people who uplift and
motivate. These people help us see the positive/ bright side of things
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Reminding our self about our accomplishments,
however small they may be helps us be positive. Celebrate the little successes
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Practice Smiling more as it releases good
chemicals (dopamine, endorphins and serotonin) in our brain/ body
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Be watchful of the language/ words we use and
make our statements more accomplishing in nature
Capitalise on all the OPPORTUNITIES that OPTIMISM provides to
achieve more in life !
Great post! Something I try to think about everyday, because I tend to be negative and see the worst in a situation.
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Thanks for your comments Josefine
DeleteAh yes! Practicing smiling is something I do a lot. In fact, as soon as I saw the word "smile" I started smiling. :) Thank you for the reminder.
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